Why Did I Attend College? Good Question! (Revised)
When I
was asked, "Why
did you decide to go to college?" I've
got to be honest and say that before that moment I had not
really thought about the reasons behind my decision. So I
sat down with a cup of coffee and thought of the the main
reasons why I'm going to college. I came to realize how big of a
decision it really was, and how lightly I was taking it.
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My
main reason for attending college was the satisfaction of
knowing that I was challenging myself to go above
the academic standard that I thought I could
handle. I was never a very intellectual person. I was always the kid
who sat in the middle of the class and busted out a good joke every 5
minutes. Sometimes I just wanted to give up trying in school,
because I would study hard but still make below par grades. My
breaking point was in the 3rd grade, when I just gave up trying in
school and ended up getting held back by my parents. I had this
attitude because I always felt pressured in school. I've
personally grown up in a household where my brothers and sisters all
got into college on full-ride scholarships. For example my sister,
Courtney Crosby, and her husband Andrew are going to JSU completely
free with the help of the Elite Honors Scholarship and they are
both tutors at A.C.E. Growing up around people with the smarts that I
couldn't dream of having really intimidated me, and in some cases
made me feel dumb. However,
I kept on pushing myself and ended up getting a partial scholarship
to JSU!
Everyone in my family was so excited and proud of me. For once in my
life I felt like I was smart like the rest of my family.
Another
reason for going to college was that it would be helpful to me
as I headed into the life beyond high school, or the so called "great
unknown". In high school, I was always around the same people
everyday and we were babied as students. We were given way to many
chances to get our work done that we honestly didn't deserve. Once
you get into college it is a whole different ball game! If you need
to get a book for class then you have to go and buy it from the
bookstore. There is no more getting books for free, or having lunch
for 2 dollars a day. If you need to get up early for a class, then
it's your responsibility to set an alarm. College is the
stepping stone into becoming a true adult. Everything about college
helps an individual grow up. It teaches responsibility, gives you
great people skills, and also helps you to figure out who you are as
a person.
The
last reason that I decided to go to college is the fact that I
get to learn to do something that I feel passionate about! I'm
going to major in Hospitality
and Culinary Management at
JSU and that is so exciting to me, because I have a passion for
cooking and owning my own restaurant one day. Ever since I
was a little kid, I have loved to cook. I've gone from cooking eggs
in the morning for breakfast as a 5 year old, to now I'm cooking
whole meals and dessert for everyone in my family. I've always
dreamed of owning my own restaurant, just the thought of putting
smiles on peoples faces with something as simple as food that I made
is remarkable to me. The true American dream is to have a job that
doesn't feel like your working, rather that you feel like you are
doing something that you truly love. With a college education, I
will be able to learn everything that I will need to
further pursue my American dream of owning my very own restaurant!
That reason alone is enough to make me want to go to college.
These
are just a few reasons why I decided to go to college. I cant wait to
see what is in store for me in the future. God Bless!
I definitely agree with when you said that college was the "great unknown". I also agree that high school was easy and college is so different in so many ways. I like your desire to be a cool one day. Good luck in your future. Well written blog!
ReplyDeleteNone of my sisters really went to college, they took a couple classes but dropped out. I can't say that I know what you are going through but, it sounds like you are really being challenged by your family which I think is cool.
ReplyDeleteI really like how you pushed through and got a scholarship! That's awesome! I'm glad you came and are studying something you love!!
ReplyDeleteI'm the oldest but it is still like my parents expected me to. I knew my career was going to require college, but other than that I had no clue about college. I definitely didn't realize how different it would be from high school.
ReplyDeleteI think it's wonderful that you have a passion! You are one of the very few students in either of my FYC classes who mentioned a passion in any of your posts. I also love your description of your development as a cook and how it makes you feel. The personal stories that you tell in your posts are your greatest strength and really make your posts enjoyable and interesting to read.
ReplyDeletethank you!
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